Who do you have the toughest time saying NO to?
Tired of being the go-to gal or guy for, well, everyone? Ya! Ya! I been there... There come to a situation that you just can't say the word "NO" to those people that close, love and **whoever shit** to you (and that sucks at times!!) I have been doing that for so **damn** long and I can't even remember a single thing. Sometimes without you reliazing, by you doing that you actually eating yourself out. You are pleasing people around you, make them happy, do anything for them but this is when the fucking question comes in: Do they really know you are sacrificing for them? Do they fucking appreciate you for what you have done? What happen if you say "NO" - "I'm sorry, I can't help you.." - will they show you a long face? Treat you differently? Create gossip? Won't be as close to you like before?Honestly, I would do anything to those "people" that close to my heart. I been surrounded by beautiful parents + sisters + cousins + aunties & uncles and bla-bla-bla... and not to forget my wonderful friends. I said it again - I would do anything for them **smile**. I'm not complaining but you just can't help it to think about all these stuff. Sometimes you been force by nature to sacrifice your dreams/needs in order to fulfill other people dreams/needs. Question: Do you think this fair? Well, some of you will say "Nothing is fair in this fucking world" - so WHAT?! Unlike me. I always like to balance things up - meaning I'm happy (I got to do what I want) you happy (I got to do what you want).It's win-win situation. Question: For how long you going to act or being like this? I bet you going to be so frustrated and just explode **sigh!**Sometimes when you need their help so badly, you don't expect them to say "NO" to you (never "NO") because you never say "NO" to them no matter how "teruk" or "bad" situation you are in, you are there for them but as for them, they "DID", they say "NO" to you. Questions: Don't you feel like "SHIT"? Felt like betrayed? Sad? Dissappointed? Exactly... you feel like you "been used" so so bad that you just too numb to do nothing **sigh smile**When these happened to me, I express it out to someone close. You just need to let it out from your chest, else you just going to be explode like volcano. TRUST me!! it's hurt you so bad sometimes you just when to fly/run away - out from MALAYSIA if can **sigh!**. Some people say that you need to be "selfish" in order to get what you want. Maybe people that born with this character, should be no problem **winking smile** Here, according to a international survey, the folks you just can't bear to deny ‑ and why you must.27%Your Child - if you are married!!Her very life once depended on your saying yes to her every need. It's hard to turn off that instinct. But if you don't, she'll grow up spoiled or helpless. 21% Your FriendYou want to be there for her. But if you keep (reluctantly) saying yes, you may end up resenting her. 19% Your Mother
It's tough to turn down the woman who did so much for you. Simply say, "You know, what you want doesn't work for me." She may be upset, but if you stay loving, she'll let it go.17% Your Husband - if you are married!!You say yes to him to avoid a fight. But being a martyr will lead you to take out your anger on him in some other way. 13% Your BossYou agree to work late ‑- again ‑- because you fear losing your job. But if you politely say: "Oh, I'm sorry, I have a previous commitment," she'll see that you have a life. Just be sure to buckle down on whatever crosses your desk the next day.Bottom line is - you are ther for others, but noone really there for you - you are alone for yourself ...
Come on you REDs - Manchester United
Someone said that I'm a hopeless MU fan... Honestly, the reason why I fall for MU is because of Beckham (Ahhhh!!! - I still think he married to a wrong women) **winking smile** Secondly, most of the "hunks" are there **hehehe** Last but not least, I like the way MU play on the field **smile** However, I managed to get MU theme song (yeah!!) **big big smile** Long LIVE Manchester United **proud smile**-Come on you RED-Busby Babes they always made me cry Thinkin' 'bout the teams of years gone by Charlton, Edwards, Law and Georgie Best We're United, you can keep the rest Schmeichel, Parker, Pallister Irwin, Bruce, Sharpe and Ince Hughes, McClair, Keane and Cantona Robson, Kanchelskis and Giggs Come on you reds, come on you reds Just keep your bottle and use your heads For ninety minutes we'll let them know Who's Man United, here we go Come on you reds, come on you reds Just keep your bottle and use your heads For ninety minutes we'll let them know Who's Man United, here we go Glory Glory Man United Glory Glory Man United We'll maintain the status quo We're Man United, here we go So Old Trafford let us hear you loud Cheer us on and we will do you proud Fifty thousand voices sing our song Keep us at the top where we belong So here's to Alex Ferguson He'll take us all the way We're on the road to glory now Winning at home and away Wondering - how come they didn't even mention about Beckham? **deep deep thinking**
Why ladies today still single?
Why we "ladies" - some "ladies" today still single? Mmm... let's check as per below mentioned **smile**1. The nice men are ugly.
2. The handsome men are not nice.
3. The handsome and nice men are gay.
4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.
5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men,
have no money.
6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with
money think we are only after their money.
7. The handsome men without money are after our money.
8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat
heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.
9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual,
somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.
10. The men who are somewhat handsome,somewhat nice and
have some money and thank God are heterosexual,
are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!
11. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose
interest in us when we take the initiative. NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN? "Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it's
our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature
into something you'd like to have dinner with."
Is your life like an onion...
One day I was looking out the windowAnd was lost in thoughtI thought that everyone I knewOnly knew a certain part
Like an onion with many different layersAnd how much you need to peelIn order to get to the center
From the surface people seeTo the deepest part of meSo this is a poemDedicated to everyone I knowSee yourself anywhere?Perhaps so....
The people that I know only by nameLook at me at the outside and say "She is cold and downhearted"Then they turn away
The people tat I get along with but we are not too closeLook at me and say "She is a nice person to be with"Then they turn away
The people that I see a lot during the day those who have some idea of who I really amLook at me and say "She would be a wonderful friend to have"Then they turn away
The people who I see and get along with most of the timeLook at me and say "She is a friend of mine, and I'm glad that I know her"Then they turn away
Finally the ones that I know the most are the ones that say "You know, if she never here to begin with I don't know where my life would be without her"Then they would turn away
Suddenly they would stopTurn around and come backAnd then they would look at me and smile And say "I care about you don't you ever go away"
My life is similiar to an onionOn the surface cold and harshWhile underneath blooming with kindness and understandingBeyond compare
The further you go into meThe more you shall seeWhat is really like to be me..... to know me.....
How Real Is Sex And The City?
**the sex and the city - expert ladies**
Have women really become so sex oriented that they've become blind to love, marriage and the whole nine yards? Well, obviously not, since Carrie fell for Mr. Big and Aidan -- even though she did sleep with a married Big while she was dating Aidan. It seems monogamy is dead on both sides of the coin. At least from this show's perspective. Samantha, by far the most promiscuous of the bunch, finally fell in love, but to her dismay, she caught the man she loves doing to her what she did to most of the men that came and went in her life -- he cheated. I guess what comes around goes around (do you believe in "karma" - as for myself - YES! I do, very much) **winking smile** Do women think the show's true to life? What about men? **wondering smile**Asking many women (mostly my gurl frens) if they watch the show garnered a very enthusiastic "yes" But when I asked how close the show was to their real lives, only a handful of city women agreed that there were quite a few similarities between the characters and them and their friends **weird smile + rolling eyes smile**
Although it's hard to believe that many women live the crazy lifestyle that the four babes of the popular hit series enjoy, there is nevertheless an element of truth to the show. After all, where are all the ideas coming from? (agree with me!??) **smile** ...You do the math.... **winking smile**
