Loving Yourself
I guessed if you seek for an advice especially about self-esteem, you may find most people will definitely providing you this advice - "You got to love yourself before you love anyhow else". I maybe right, I maybe wrong. But the fact is, you have to love yourself. I always have this problem - words that I always used "I don't care about myself", "I wish I'm prettier than her", "Why I'm like this" etc. Even though you know very well what you need to do (with/without an advice from your friends or whoever) but you still can't help to feel that way. **sigh**In life, we may find it easy to allow ourselves to love and accept multitudes of other people, but when it comes to loving ourselves we're not as forgiving. In fact, we can be quite relentless in our pursuit of perfection. So, how then do you learn to put aside all the shoulds and should nots we face, and really begin a love affair with yourself?
Someone told me the first step is to realize that you are somebody. Like you're a friend, someone's daughter or son, possibly a lover, an employee or employer, or maybe even someone's spouse. No matter how your role changes, you're still somebody. Nothing will ever change that.
The next step is to take time out to actually love yourself. In romantic relationships it is often said that true love is shown through actions, not words. Learn to apply this to yourself with the following ideas, and you'll be on the road to a lifetime romance, with yourself!
Believe it or not it's works. Mmm.. only sometimes (for me only). I guess if you practice these terms, you would be fine **smiling** Pratice makes perfect doesn't it, just have to makesure that your sub-conscious mind is workable.
posted by syaq @ 12:02 PM
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