"Is it love you're feeling or just an infatuation?"..
This is what I believe, "Infatuation is instant desire" - one set of glands calling to another. "Love is friendship" - that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time (I think la!!) **smile**Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy (I'm too sure of this, as I don't really experience it before but most of my girlfriends do) **winking smile** There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine to closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real! (I can't prove it but you just have to experience it yourself than you will understand) **smile** It gives you "strength" and "grows" beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence, even when he/she is away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait (so, do you understand what it means now - or you too stuck up to admit you are..) **winking smile**
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him." Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he is cheating. Sometimes you check and hired the private investigator **sigh!**
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He/She feels your trust, and it makes him/her even more trustworthy (depands how lucky you are to get a guy/gurl that knows how to really, really appreciate you else F-U-C-K it)
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before (ahaww! just love this feeling, it just make you feeling so alive)
Special note:
To all my girlfriends - may you find your soulmate that treat you like an angel, honour your heart like a diamond and appreciate the unconditional love given by you for always.
To all my boyfriends - may you find your soulmate that treat you like a devil - opps.. sorry dudes.. treat you like a M-A-N!!
And for myself - keep on waiting.. (Oi! whoever you are, don't take your own fucking time la.. can't wait too long.. later no VALUE) **hehehe**
posted by syaq @ 12:32 PM
3 Comments:
I'll try to help by jotting ur number on mirrors of every gents room I visit. Jangan kata tak tolong ya. Sure can dapat at least one good guy.
haha! of all the place it have to be fucking gents room ah! thanks, D.. for helping me out haha!
sometime, in terms to get one, you, yourself have to step outside the boundaries you've built around you. if not the guys pun seram nak dekat. dalam hidup ni if you want certain thing...GO AND GRAB IT! WHY WAIT?
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