Wednesday, June 29, 2005

A Clinical Opinion of the Single Life

How the fuck should I start on this **rolling eyes**. I read this book called - "Men don't cry but women do" (half way thru only) **smile**. Ok, let's take a realistic and very serious look at what is actually occurring in the lives of single women **Mmm**. It seems that recently I've been reading that 44-54% of women are single based on a survey (damn! not really sure whether is this true or what but that what it says) **so sian liao** With such a high percentage, it is no wonder I'm seeing so many books on the life of the single woman **crap!!** however, I find it rather fascinating since I was single too **hehehe + smile**

On certain chapters, the book does focus on sex all while promoting positive changes. It basically gives single woman a much needed reality check **Mmm** for example - Is sex that satisfying for single women or would they enjoy sex more in a much more stable and secure environment, like marriage? (very interesting!!) This book seem to make women more aware of the connection between sexuality and the emotions (very good combination) **winking smile** We women know they are connected, so this is not completely new information I think la. However, there was much to learn from this book in regards to how hormones affect mood and etc **don't tell anyone smile**

Let's move on other chapters (flipping the book now) **smile**, there is one comment that disturbed me in a unique way. When the book said Adam and Eve were having casual sex (do you believe that, damn), my mind could not comprehend how anyone would ever believe such a statement **argh + confusing smile** To me, Adam and Eve are the ultimate soul mates, created by "God" and an example of the ideal relationship we should strive for in a troubled world. On the other point this book is telling woman how damaging casual sex can be and on the other hand says things like "you go girl". That can be confusing **damn!!** and I think this book is trying so hard not to offend people **shit!!** that this book is trying to present both sides of the situation (I have a feeling that this book will be "gone by the wind") Women who have any religious beliefs will not find much advice about that subject in this book.

Anyway, Knowledge is power. Even if you are married or single or divorcee or -whatever shit-, you might enjoy the information about the mysteries of the male psyche in this book. Perhaps it is just the nature of love to pounce on you when you are not looking **winking smile**

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